We’re leaving for our holiday trip on Tuesday (Dubai, Hyderabad, and Kochi). I figured it’d be timely to share how I really pack (and how I’ve relaxed some of my old packing rules from How to Pack):
I’d love to know what your tried-and-true packing advice is. If you’re still shopping for your loved ones (especially the ‘impossible to shop for’ folks), I have you covered with this gift guide. I personally think that a donation in their name is one of the best gifts you can give, and highly recommend donating to PSI. If you donate via my link all December, I will match all donations up to $1000.
I hope you’re taking exquisite care of yourself, especially now. If that feels too hard, come steal my ‘stay well’ plan:
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Heraby Jennifer Saint I’ve always thought that Hera deserved more. More than being defined by Zeus’ wife, or the mother of Ares and Hephaestus. More than her stories seeking retribution for Zeus’ affairs by targeting his paramours. More than being the goddess of marriage. Jennifer Saint apparently thought the same, and wrote the most gripping novel that connects the myths you know through a rich history centered on the goddess who’s often been sidelined in the stories we know. It’s female rage: the origin story. And while I had to take a break from reading this a month ago (still raw from the election), I flew through it in two days. You can find my 2024 reads here, and my December reads here. Nerdy Claw Clips ($18)My hair has reached the length/weight where my usual bun or ponytail starts giving me a headache, and my neck gets too sweaty when I leave it down. This is when I reach for a trusty claw clip - usually a boring tortoise or black one. It’s fine…but it’s boring. When I was scrolling Amazon looking for some dopamine boosting accessories (bag charms inspired by Muna, rainbow winter accessories), I stumbled across these incredibly nerdy claw clips and immediately ordered a few. They are perfect. They keep my medium length, thick hair up without needing to adjust it repeatedly, and the designs are literally perfect for me (chill pill for my bipolar self, heart & injection to represent my company). Yes, they’re a bit kitschy, but the quality of these clips are great and they zhush up a boring outfit without being overly cheesy. They’d be a perfect stocking stuffer for the women in your life who own their mental health struggles or work in healthcare settings. Find this month’s Amazon favorites here. The art of returnpublished in Cruel Summer Book Club I love the idea of coming home to ephemeral things - an old hobby, book, or role I once held. I resist the urge to declare I’m closing a chapter, and have replaced it with “it’s not a priority right now, but I’m open to picking it back up one day.” Now that I think about it, books may be the exception to that rule. I’m forever re-reading my old favorites. Jillian Anthony’s words summed up my own journey with #5SmartReads this year:
We’ve been programmed to believe that we need to be doing more, doing better, dreaming bigger. What if we gave ourselves the space to pause, and pivot, and pick things back up - and celebrate these moves the way we honor promotions, new jobs, or awards? Like Jillian, I started running again this fall. At first, I dismissed it and minimized it when bringing it up with friends (“Running is generous, it’s really more of a slow plod”). But returning to something I’ve had a joyfully noncommittal relationship felt wonderful - a chance to bridge my 40 year old self with the 23 year old who ran half marathons, and creating a memory for my future self to reconnect with one day. If you enjoyed this weekend’s letter, please consider:
As always, take exquisite care of yourself this week. xo,
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