🍬✨The Nexialist #0104the dangers of big d*** energy | dutch directness aka speakability | flowers | flash of light | soft porn | for granted | cute aggression | nochentera
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hello folks, i hope this e-mail doesn't find you unwell like me. this week, i was hit by some heavy flu. i’m still getting better, slowly, but thankfully i did have a bit of energy to keep the nexialist running. i hope you enjoy it and send me some “get well” energy while you read/watch/listen/share. some news: next week i’ll be flying to são paulo and will spend 7 weeks around Brazil, some time working, some resting, some reconnecting with family and friends and mostly avoiding the cold amsterdam. i’ll miss my boyfriends, siblings and friends (and my bike), but it will pay off. now… enjoy this nexialist 🫀 Thanks for reading The Nexialist! Subscribe for free to receive new posts and support my work. 1 year ago » ⚛️✨The Nexialist #0054 : Atomic Habits | Innovation Cycles | Third Era of Social | The Future 100: 2022 | Content Curation Approaches | Caprisongs Review | Navigating The Algorithmic Soundscape | Machina | Remota Batucada 2 years ago » 🧠✨The Nexialist #0003 : The Lungs of the World | Brazilian Money | Céu Azul | Cafuné | Gulper Eel | Rational Dialogues | Ontological Design | Save for Later | Mullets 🍆the dangers of big d*** energy if you know me, you know how important the d*** discussion is to me. it is undeniable that our society is obsessed with penis size, and this is exacerbated and perpetuated by pornography and other media. Zeke goes on to investigate if there’s such a thing as a perfect penis and stumbles on different people: a surgeon that performs enlargement surgeries, sex-toy makers, intactivists (activists fighting the unnecessary and normalized circumcisions that happens in the US) and a man who does enlargement injections. the examples he brings might be extreme, but they are symptoms of us not talking enough about it.
🇳🇱dutch directness aka speakability thank you, Juan, for sharing this with me. when i moved to the Netherlands i was warned about the “dutch directness.” coming from brazil, where we culturally “beat around the bush” quite a lot, i’ve come to find it quite refreshing and something i must learn. they say it is inherited from Calvinist traditions and it is still practiced today. now i learned the dutch word for it: “bespreekbaarheid (speakability) – that everything can and should be talked about; there are no taboo topics.” in the video, they even connect to the dutch view on nudity, which is much more laid back than in the US or Brazil. at work, i’ve witnessed clear feedback that something was not working and then immediate engagement of the team to help the person who was responsible. at first, i was shocked to hear the “dry” feedback, but then i thought it was much more productive that it was not taken personally AND now we needed to find a new solution. of course, hearing the truth is not always nice, but it helps us work on what needs to be improved. 💐flowers thank you, andrea, for sharing your miley obsession with me and everyone around you 😜 everyone is talking about miley and her flowers and i have to take my hat off for her as the song is at the top of the charts in many countries/streaming services. it’s genius how she did this so people would not only enjoy the song, but also put some easter eggs and talk about the song. i think most of them are not confirmed by her, so it’s her fanbase who is connecting the dots. some of the easter eggs:
there are probably more, but yes, she knows what she is doing. it’s also interesting to consider how the success of the song can be tied to the more individualistic and independent society we live in. “i can love myself better than you can.” but of course, on a more positive take, flowers is a song about healing, resignifying and finding new meanings (now it’s not only her ex’s birthday, it’s the date she released her record-breaking single, or the infamous cheating-house became now eternalized in the video…) and most importantly, finding your self-love again. you go, girl! 🚨flash of light last year i has the privilege of watching Róisín live, and it was such a euphoric experience. not one song she played sounded exactly the same from the recorded album versions. they were quite different, and that made it feel that much more special. i think it’s such a smart way to think of live concerts, of adding value to the live experience. now we can all listen to one of the live versions and enjoy. get ready for goosebumps. 🍬soft porn this song just got me at first 🔨for granted yaeji is one of the coolest artists at the moment, and i’m so happy she is releasing an album soon (‘with a hammer’ next April). press play and enjoy her cuteness, talent and coolness. 😻cute aggression thank you, Juan, for this supercute video. i just loved the animation and relatable it is. who hasn’t had the urge to just squeeze or stuff a cat in your mouth? once i pinched my baby cousin when I was 8 or so, and i remember the feeling of cute aggression pushing to do it. she cried and i was embarrassed. now i’m happy to learn there might be explanations for that. i’m also happy to learn there are scientists looking at that. 🪩nochentera this song is one of the contenders to represent spain in this year’s eurovision. the first time i heard it, it made me cringe a bit and think: “this is for 13-year-olds). it really sounds like k-pop in Spanish, and later on i realized it could have been produced by the same people who made A*teens (the ABBA spinoff at the beginning of the 2000s). oh well, i’ve been listening to it quite a lot and i will not apologize for it. life is too short not to be cringe. see you next week, cuties 🫀🫀If anything made your brain tingle, click like, and please share it with your friends. It helps The Nexialist to reach more curious minds.🥰If someone amazing sent it to you, tell them you love them, and you can subscribe at thenexialist.substack.com.❓If you want to know what a Nexialist is, click here.💌I want to know what you think/who you are! Your feedback is highly appreciated, you can e-mail me or fill in this short survey. Thank you! 🙏🏻🔌Let’s Collab?I truly believe innovation comes from bringing improbable areas together, and that’s why I called this project The Nexialist. Some sectors are known to be self-referencing and hermetic. Sometimes teams are on autopilot mode, focused on the daily grind, which hinders innovation. As a Nexialist, I like to burst these bubbles, bringing references from different areas, and maintaining teams inspired and connected to the Zeitgeist. I offer inspiration sessions called Brainsparks, creative desk research (Zeitgeist Boost), Plug’n’Play deals for workshops and sprints, and other bespoke formats. If you want to know more about this, send me an e-mail with your challenge(s) and we can figure something out together. Check out my website and some work I’ve done below:
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