It’s Sunday evening, just before 8 pm. I’m sitting on Rho’s bed to finish this newsletter and tomorrow’s #5SmartReads while he plays with the Legos he received for his 7th birthday, which we celebrated over the weekend. The weekend was as much of a blur as the week was - family visits, birthday celebrations, a LOT of screen time as I attempted to rest from a chaotic week, and caring for a sick toddler (and cleaning up after said sick toddler). One of our favorite families came over earlier today, and the kids created a Home Alone-esque booby trap as we sipped De Soi aperitifs and caught up with each other. We prepared dinner together and the mac and cheese we made for the kids went uneaten as we scrambled to feed them a smattering of bananas, rice, cheese quesadillas, protein-enriched chocolate milk, bagels, and whatever else I had in the fridge. I really must order groceries for tomorrow. While our kids splashed in the tub (and delighted in splashing me), I placed a Target order for the vacation gear that they’ve since outgrown from our last family vacation - swimsuits and sandals, shorts and new polos, floaties, sunscreen. Rho’s and my passports arrived in the nick of time, and I can’t believe spring break is nearly here and also how much I need to get done this week before we leave. I really must do a brain dump and get all my tasks for the week organized - and get a good night’s sleep - and stay up to finish that deck for Tuesday - and NOT pick up In a New York Minute even though the first few pages have me totally hooked. And I really must figure out what I’m actually going to do tonight. It’s rare that I get to just document what happened over a day or weekend, but there’s something comforting in having this recorded for future Hitha, when her children are off living their own life and she’s puttering around the house wishing for the sounds of “Mommy! Mommy!” and the weight of her kids as they curl up on her lap to read the same book, over and over again. So I’m going to savor the weight of Rho leaning on me, asking me to look at a Lego set he wants next and my asking how he’ll earn it, and the satisfying exhaustion that a parent of young kids feels on a Sunday evening. Don’t worry, future Hitha. I’m savoring it. What I Read This Week - With My Ears (sponsored by Macmillan)
Does the perfect couple exist? This is the question I asked myself while listening to The Golden Couple, Greer Hendricks and Sarah Pekkanen’s superb thriller. This audiobook got me through caring for two sick kids (who watched the same movie, over and over, all weekend). It got me through a delayed flight and a quiet evening to myself, and it got me through waiting for a late night flight. We can do hard things - as long as we have an excellent thriller being read to us. I got completely lost in Marissa and Matt’s seemingly perfect marriage, in Avery’s unconventional therapeutic methods meeting her past, and in supportive characters that are absolutely fascinating. Thrillers are the perfect genre to listen to - there’s no reading ahead on the page, which makes it a little harder to figure out the endgame and thus a more satisfying resolution in the end. And this book’s ending is one I did NOT see coming. Karissa Vacker and Marin Ireland performed this book perfectly, and I’m grateful to have new authors and new narrators to add to my “must-read” list. And if you’re new to any of them, start with The Golden Couple. Top #5SmartReads of the Week
The rest of the week’s reads (and conversations!) are below: What Everyone Else Read This Week Abigail
Your Questions, Answered What are you doing in ATL?! Having an Indian fusion wedding and looking for design inspo. Any recs?! Tell us more about the books you read with Becca… I feel like I’m late to the party! I started with A Court Of Thorns and Roses in January, and read the first two books in her new Crescent City series in the past week and now I don’t know what to do with my life except buy Etsy fan merch from the series and think about the series and wondering when is too soon to re-read the series. Link to those fab sunglasses please. Where in ATL will you be? Thank you for the BK food recs! Curious about books/resources for wealth building. Rachel Rodgers' book and community is the first place I’ll point you to- both are brilliant! I also recommend Her First 100K and the new investing education app they launched! Investing in the market is the first step for wealth generation. Ellevest and a lot of the EFTs on Public are a good way to get started and have amazing educational resources. And if you’re ready to begin angel investing and qualify as an accredited investor, my friends Annie Trotta and Jenna Mayrowitz Turner are the ones to follow! How do you feeling about NYC lifting it’s mask mandate esp for schools? Our family made the decision that Who will continue masking inside school until Rhaki can be vaccinated. (We feel fine with him removing it at recess), and we’ll re-evaluate once Rhaki is two weeks out from his second jab. Looks like you have the newer Cuyana backpack- thoughts? Thanks! I think the stone color (which I have) is perfect, as it pairs perfectly with every single neutral or bold color. When did you feel like you got your motherhood groove? Favorite Indian food in NYC? 40th birthday present to myself? Dyson hair dryer? Fancy purse? Thanks! I personally plan to treat myself to a tennis necklace for my 40th birthday, and I really like the bevel set one from Mejuri (this setting is less likely to snag on your clothes or bedding and is very comfortable for constant wear). May Daylight Savings go easy on you. xo,
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